Living Up To Your Own Expectations & The Inner Battle

I’ve talked a lot about our inner battles and how our relationship that we have with ourselves is ultimately the most important relationship in our lifetime. We can’t escape from ourselves, we have to live with who we are, whether we are happy with that or not. When I talk to clients it always comes

How Different Types of Motivation Gets Stuff Done

An area that I have a deep passion for is motivation. Not so much for the ‘motivational’ content that’s out there on the internet but the mechanics of why people are motivated to reach certain goals and do particular behaviours. Without motivation we would not do anything, we wouldn’t eat, move, love or have a

What You Say to Yourself in the Highs and Lows

In this blog I wanted to talk a bit more in depth about the relationship that we have with ourselves and how that impacts how we perceive success and failure throughout our lives. In the previous article I wrote ‘Are your relationships serving you?’ I looked at how the most important relationship we have is

What We Can’t Change Does Hurt Us

‘Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, Courage to change the things I can, And wisdom to know the difference.’ – Reinhold Niebuhr I remember seeing this for the first time pinned up in my dissertation supervisor’s office. Every meeting we had it was there hanging on the wall and I